Ignore how people look at you, its you who you need to impress, not people.

10:56:00 PM YILIN (: 0 Comments

So hi guys!
I decided to post cos I've been rotting at home watching videos..................
YES. NO JOKE. I've been watching from sad videos, to motivating videos, to comedy videos and to romance videos.
And thus, i decided to write a blog post on Motivating people.
Its been too long since i last wrote on Motivational'Quotes. or a motivating post.
The last motivation post i wrote was in 2012, or 2011.
So yes. AT THAT MOMENT, I was kinda down.
As in, my life wasn't that great at that point of time.
My life was practically running downhill, and only through blogging, i could vent some anger on it.
But after posting a few of my sad and anger post, It feels like the atmosphere on my blog was gone as well.
So i decided to start posting motivational post to motivate people, as well as to motivate myself.
At that point of time, I blog motivational post because I want to read it in future if I'm running downhill again.
So it makes me feel that, "I've been there, and I'm through it, So this time round, I'll go through it smoothly as well".
Thats one of my weird logic in life.
So lets start :D

To be honest, in the past, I don't really care how people look at me.
I wear outfit that makes me happy, or maybe lets put it this way,
I wear the things that i pulled out from my wardrobe on that day.
I don't care whether its pretty or not, or if it makes me look fat.
I would just wear it, thats me.
And in secondary school, everybody is looking for the flaws they can find in you,
to look down on you, and to laugh at you.
So i've been laughed at alot of times.
I can still say it now, I HATE MY SECONDARY SCHOOL LIFE.
That 5years in Secondary school was the worst time of my life.
I even thought of quitting school once, yes . thats how bad it was.
The only time i felt happy in secondary school was my cca time.
Thats the only time, other than that, its miserable .
I start becoming anti-social .
And i start to becoming a mute, i guess.
No matter how they bully me, I'll just ignore them.
YES, Practically y'll can say that I'm scared of them,
But no, I ignore them because I don't want to go down to their level and quarrel/fight with them.
I actually had enough of their nonsense.
So to the people that're in Secondary school right now,
You'll get through it eventually.
Think of it this way, they bully you, one day they'll get bullied by someone else as well.
Just ignore whatever they say, cos what they want is to make you angry,
So when you're angry or when you've thrown your temper,
they know that they've succeeded and reached their "goal-in-life" .
YES. So to make them real pissed, is to ignore them.
Make them angry by ignoring them, Treat them like some passer-by or stranger that studies with you.
And ofcause, there'll also be girls out there waiting to put you down,
They'll start saying like, "Oh, you've acne-face,"
"Oh, you're so fat. When you sit down on the chair, the chair feels like its breaking"
JUST IGNORE THEM. Or if you want,
Talk back them.
What can they do? They could only be angry at you, and they couldn't fight you.
Its like, HELLO. We're living in a LAW-BY-LAW country.
Be proud of who you are.
Having acne-face is nothing to be afraid or sad of.
Acne is actually called, 青春痘 in chinese.
So it actually means , young beans? ok its DIRECT translation.
But what i wanna say is, by having acne means you're still young.
So don't be so eager to grow up, Enjoy while you're young.
Cos you only get to be young once in your life.
Stop trying to fit in, Be yourself, thats what makes you unique and stand out :)
And if by being yourself, make you friendless, den so be it.
Your true friend don't need you to fit in and fake yourself around them.
True friend is someone who's there waiting for the real you to appear and accepting for who you are.
They'll appear.
I always believe that God will definitely send a true friend to each human being in the universe.
And Till then,

Just a short note to you guys who just started reading my blog,
Hi :)
I used to be a girl that just wanted to blend in, and just wanted to be invisible.
When i heard my name thats being called through the microphone during assembly period or in class,
I will automatically shiver, I used to HATE teacher calling me.
Things happen, that made me grow out of it.
Now what i want is you guys to do the same as well.
Start stepping out of your comfort zone . Thats the only way to grow up :)
And trust me, secondary school life is is the only time you can make tons of mistake and nobody will blame you. :)

Be heard, Be strong, Be proud. :)